Visit my live chat site - http://livechat.sophiastjames.com
You can visit my profile and be sure to give me a call. Now is the time. Let’s roleplay and work out your wildest fantasy. My phone is never too far away… 1-866-739-9832
Visit my live chat site - http://livechat.sophiastjames.com
You can visit my profile and be sure to give me a call. Now is the time. Let’s roleplay and work out your wildest fantasy. My phone is never too far away… 1-866-739-9832
Happy New Year!
As we prepare to celebrate and ring in 2012, I want to take this moment and express my gratitude for all of you. I appreciate the love, the letters, the emails, and the notes. I love that you love what I do. Many thanks!
Also, PLEASE do not drink and drive. It’s not cute and it’s not smart. Period! If you have an android or iPhone, you can download the FREE app, ‘TaxiMagic‘. USE IT! The app helps you locate a taxi anywhere you are and you can reserve or call a taxi from the app as well. I use it when I’m traveling and it’s great!
Portland, OR area
TriMet is offering FREE rides after 8p.
Broadway Cab is 503-333-3333.
Radio Cab is 503-227-1212.
Please use your heads, stay safe, have fun, and I will see you in 2012 darlin’!
ADDENDUM
In Portland, we also have a great volunteer ran service called RIDE ON PORTLAND. Their number is 503-235-RIDE (7433). Call them to schedule a designated driver and they will take you and your group wherever you need to go.
Back in September, I stated I was going to ‘leave’ the industry. To focus on other things. Let’s be honest-> I made that decision based on something silly. Well, needless to say, I am back
! I should have never left. I love you guys! Not to mention, a person should never ‘change’ themselves for someone else. I am who I am and that’s that! Just because I am in the adult industry does not mean I am not intelligent. Sooo…..
I feel like I am home. Amongst my fellow perverts and adoring fans. I <3 you and promise to never leave again
. I am going back to school next month, which I am very excited about.
I will soon be back on Streamate and you can see my schedule on my live chat site.
Don’t forget about my Clips 4 Sale stores. I have one for fetishes and one for hardcore stuff.
Much love to you all!
Not one, not two, not three, not four, but SEVERAL queer porn companies have been nominated for an AVN award. Basically, the AVN awards are the Emmys of the adult industry world. Winning an award is fucking fabulous, but just to be recognized and nominated for an award is an accomplishment in its self.
Big time congrats to
I’ll be heading to Las Vegas for the AVN Awards along with several other queer porn stars. I am so excited. I am designing my dress and trust me, it will be one sexy and sassy dress!
Congrats to all the hard working queers in the industry!
Happy Holiday sweet darlings!

Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow the RSS Feed and Twitter for updates.
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On to the reviews:
Vibrators
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Saddle up and hold on for the ride of your life! Rodeo H is here my darlings.
Constructed to look like a very stylish pair of undies, these bad boys are made for the inconspicuous rider. They are comfortable, they are cute, they are fashionable, they are hot as hell!
Opening the package, I find a reusable sack with the Rodeo H logo on it. My sack was white, however they do come in black too.
Inside the sack not only is there a beautifully crafted harness, but there is a nice dog tag with their logo imprinted on it. On the waistband of the harness is a screen print of their name, just off to the side.
The Rodeo H harness is designed for long term wear. The waistband is made of heavy duty elastic, reminds me of a jock strap band. The bulk of the harness is constructed from 95% cotton and 5% elastane, making the Rodeo H one of the most comfortable harnesses I have ever used. It is best to wash in cold water and hang dry.
The Rodeo H harnesses come in three (3) different color schemes – black/red, black/gray, black/dark gray. Another reason to love this company is the fact that they have a wide range of sizes. Below are the size ranges -
The harness holds its shape well and stretches with ease. They REALLY do feel like nice, snug, undies! Not only that, but they really are fashionable. These are some undies (er, I mean harnesses) that you could most definitely wear to a No Pants Dance Off party and look excellent! They are easy to put on and they stay in place well.
I wore these under my dress and went out dancing. Not once did they ride up, bunch, or feel awkwardly uncomfortable. The only time anyone had any clue I was wearing a harness was when I wanted them to know. I also worn them under jeans. Again, I wasn’t uncomfortable or experience irritation from the Rodeo H.
The seams are double stitched, including the O ring seam. The O ring is encased in the same cotton/elastane blend the harness is made of. The O ring can accommodate a dildo as wide as 2 inches. The dildo sits nice and tight in a pocket made of the same material.
I would highly recommend the Rodeo H harness to anyone who -
If you are interested in obtaining you own Rodeo H harness, you can visit their website at http://www.rodeoh.com. And at the affordable price of $45, you can’t go wrong!
Today is World AIDS Day. A day we all should remember. Remember those who have fallen to AIDS, remember the ones who are suffering from HIV/AIDS right now. It’s not only the patients, but the loved ones, friends, and families of the those with HIV/AIDS.
It is estimated that more than a million people in the US live with HIV and more than half a million had their lives claimed by AIDS.
It is important to know your status. It’s time WE stop being shy and/or embarrassed to discuss our sex lives with our partners. It’s time to start caring enough about those we share our most intimate lives with. There are many places to get tested, and most do not charge, but if they do it is a low cost fee. Below is a list of places in the Portland, OR, USA area. Directly below that are listings where you can look up a location in your area.
Multnomah County HIV Community Test Site
426 SW Stark Street, 6th FL. Portland, OR 97204
Phone: 503-988-3700 or 503-988-3775: M, T, Th, F: 9AM to 6PM and Wed: 1-6PM
• Anonymous and confidential testing
• By appointment or walk-in
• Results available in 7 days
• $20 fee per test, but no one is refused service if unable to pay!
• ASL and foreign language interpreters available
• Spanish speakers on site
Multnomah County NE Health Center
NE Killingsworth and MLK Blvd. (Entrance in rear near Emerson, Go to 2nd FL)
Call: 503-988-3030 for information: TUESDAYS only: 5-8pm (last appointment is 7:30PM)
• Anonymous and confidential testing
• RAPID HIV TESTING (45 min) for guys who do guys – Based on eligibility and available staffing.
• Walk-in only
• Free
• Spanish speakers on site
Outside In
1132 SW 13th Ave. Portland, OR
Phone: 503-535-3800: Our Website
• Walk-ins only
• Confidential testing
• Results available in 10 working days
• $10 sliding fee scale, free to homeless persons
PIVOT
209 S.W. 4th St., Portland, OR
Phone: 503-445-7699
Tuesdays – 5pm-8:30pm (HIV/STD) Wednesdays – 1:00pm-3:30pm (HIV/STD) Saturdays – 5pm-9pm (HIV only)
• Offers HIV & STD testing, prevention, and education services to all men into men, gay, bi, trans or other identified
• Confidential testing
• Results available in 10 working days
Oregon AIDS Hotline
Phone: 1-800-777-2437
http://www.oregonaidshotline.com
• To find a location nearest you in Oregon
National HIV and STD Testing Resource
Phone: 1-800-777-2437
http://www.hivtest.com
• To find a location nearest you in the US
Though I don’t celebrate Thanksgiving for the traditional values the holiday has been known for, I am still very thankful for so many things in my life. I am quite blessed in many ways.
First, I want to share a video that was made a few years back in regard to Columbus Day. I feel it is very relevant to Thanksgiving as well. Thanksgiving is a holiday to ‘celebrate’ and honor the harvest festival of the Pilgrims and Native Americans in the 1600′s. It was made a national holiday by President Lincoln, mostly as a way to create unity between the north and south. Thanksgiving is a holiday that celebrates the genocide of many native people and while somehow creating this illusion of peace and unity.
With that said, it’s also a day to be thankful and joyous for the wonderful things the Universe has provided.
I am thankful for my son. He is what keeps me going when I have a rough day. He teaches me things at every turn and shows me how to just let go.
I am thankful for my chosen family and friends. Their support has come to be invaluable.
I am thankful for my job(s). Who else can say they are an award winning director/producer, queer porn star, wound care nurse, event planner, PTA mom, ‘housewife’, massage therapist, social media/grassroots marketer? A few, but not many
.
I am thankful for my bestie (baby daddy – inside joke), Chance McKinsey. I love this boy so much.
I am thankful for my Amy. She is the rock behind Sophia St. James and has been my number one supporter from day one.
I am thankful for my grandparents. Being raised by them showed me what true, unconditional, ever lasting love was. I learned the value of being independent, yet loving and loyal to my home.
I am thankful for my Occupy family. I found a true and real community with the Occupation. And it help me get in touch with my social justice roots. VIVA OCCUPATION!
Last but definitely not least, I am thankful for my fans. YOU are the reason I am here. YOU are the reason I keep doing what I do. I love you guys! I love the fan mail, the comments, the notes. Thank you so much for your support.
xoxox
Imagine being wrapped in the arms of your lover, while staring up into the night at this ↓
Since I was a small child I have been fascinated with nature. All that is nature. Earthquakes, tornadoes, volcanoes… you name it, I’m sure I’m obsessed with it. However, there are two obsessions that stand out from the rest.
The Northern Lights aka aurora borealis
and
The Southern Lights aka aurora australis
For years I have been mesmerized by these two phenomenons. There are few things that occur in nature that are as beautiful as the aurora borealis and australis. Witnessing these are definitely on my bucket list.
They are caused by the collision of energetically charged particles with atoms in the high altitude atmosphere (called the thermosphere). When this collision occurs, a natural light display in the sky happens, particularly in the high latitude (Arctic and Antarctic) regions.
Enjoy!
Aurora Borealis timelapse HD from Tor Even Mathisen on Vimeo.
Earth | Time Lapse View from Space, Fly Over | NASA, ISS from Michael König on Vimeo.
The above video is an eight minute short film. Though it includes many different beautiful views from space, it also features some amazing shots of the aurora borealis and aurora australis.
I wasn’t too good at documenting the night as I was to caught up in the moment. But let me assure you it was one of the most amazing nights I have ever experienced.
I arrived to base camp around 10p and it was a great sight. Many people holding signs and standing in solidarity. I immediately was welcomed with smiles and cheers. I walked the grounds for a bit meeting interesting people. The camp was set up quite nicely. There was a sanitation area, supply area, food station, medic area, and information area. People were helping others in anyway they could; offering their tent to those without one, sharing their food and beverages, and helping others set up their own ‘living area’.
I finally decided to find a place to set up camp for the night. I talked with so many interesting and amazing people until 3am. I met a fellow massage therapist, musician, business owner, semi-professional life coach, and many others. It was also nice to run into some of my super sweet friends. So I shared a tarp with my two friends, drank whiskey, eat green brownies, and laughed loudly through the night. I witnesses team work, solidarity from passing cars (horns honking and people giving the peace sign), strangers helping strangers, and it was a damn good feeling to be there.
If you are unaware of what the Occupancy is about, visit these websites.